This morning's Old Testament was from the apocryphal book known as Sirach or also as Ecclesiasticus, chapter 19, verses 4-17. What we find as we read this, are true words of wisdom for today's living. This lesson encourages us not to gossip - the first part tells us, if you hear something, don't repeat it. And the second half encourages us, not to jump to conclusions when we hear something bad about someone. If we hear something bad, about someone, go talk to them. You might find out what y0u heard was untrue. Or there may be a very practical explanation for what happened.
When we make assumptions about other people, especially about their intentions - we always project our own biases into the situation. It is always more productive to ask questions and give others a chance to explain before we condemn. We could reduce a lot of our stress, and much of our health challenges by giving people the benefit of a doubt and engaging them in productive conversation rather than sitting back and stewing in our own web of conjecture.
May the Lord grant you a peaceful day void of the conflict that is often produced by gossip. Amen.
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